1. You begin this decade with an advantage over your 20-year-old self: your independence.
You have your own place, car, and a dependable job (hopefully). Yes, those things are also accompanied with bills, but you don’t have any nagging and nosy parents yelling after you every time you leave the house. That alone is a win within itself.
2. Unlike in your 20s, when you’re trying to figure stuff out, you now have a good idea of who you are as person.
You know who you aspire to be, what kind of life you want to live, and what it takes to get there.
3. You know what you want in love because you can now distinguish your desires from your wants.
You may desire the kind of tall, dark stranger that exists only in Harlequin novels, but you want someone with whom you can build a future: a loyal…
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